...loving life's joys...

Maybe this time

2011-06-15T08:58:00.000-07:00

A few things I'm learning about myself, the Gospel, and goals from here on out:

Life. I don't know how all my young-mom-friends out there do it. They serve their husbands, kids, make their homes into live-in design show rooms, home school, host house church, have time for reading and hobbies on the side, oh yeah, and are growing by leaps and bounds in their walks with the Lord, too. They are superwomen. (Or are they? Is this what a normal woman and mother is supposed to look like? If so, yowzas...I need an intervention!)

So, in an attempt to actually be like these fellow mamas and women, I've been striving to do all of the above the last few months. And simply, I can't do it. And now that I'm realizing how much I've tried to do it successfully, I'm all the more empty.

Comparison is a thorn in my side. I'm learning, once again, how useless and detrimental this tactic of the enemy is. I feel like I should have this figured out by now. That I should be confident and have enough self-awareness to combat the little thoughts that come floating by. Rather than let them pass by, I ponder, give them more attention than they deserve. Then those floating thoughts land, take root, then grow to affect my outlook on life, family, and the Church. This is so elementary! Why is this still an issue?!

For now, I'll stop asking why it's an issue and accept that it is an issue. And now that it's admitted, I can no longer fool myself and think I can fix it on my own. Now I have the joy of repenting. And I'm not being sarcastic--it is a joy for me to repent! It could be daily for the next few days and weeks. OK, probably multiple times a day, but it's still repenting. And I'm learning that all this comparison stuff isn't really as much about wanting to refine myself or do better for my family as it is about wanting to puff myself up. So, enter pride. I'm learning that pride is at the root of my heart and I want to look like I have it all together so I can be esteemed as a good wife who practices Proverbs 31. Good grief if that isn't sin then what is?! (Didn't think I'd be pouring my heart out on my blog today--I have laundry to do, tons of it, but I think this public confession is laundering my heart. Which I'll take). So, there's a bit of an update into my life and how Christ and the Spirit are searching my heart, exposing the disgusting-ness of it, and how I need Him more now than I can ever remember. I love that I have a Savior who isn't surprised by this. He's not shaking his head or "tisk-tisk" ing me. He loves me, He made me, He knew this would be a struggle, and He decided to redeem me anyways. And He's refining and will use this for His glory, Lord willing.

On a not so serious note, here are some goals and recent updates:

Jason will be sharing preaching responsibilities at the Apex Xenia campus and the Kettering campus starting in September. This is a huge step for our family. We're excited for what's to come!
I've become a Mary Kay beauty consultant. I've loved it so far and I'm hoping this venture will bring in extra income for our family, allow me to expand my social circles and reach women who don't know Christ so through our facials, I can share Him with them.
Reagan and Gideon are the cutest kids. They are handfuls most of the time but my heart is also full because of them. So, I guess they're handfuls and heartfuls.
Michael, Maggie, and Jonah-boy are moving back to Dayton in July. No words could express how much our little family is anticipating their home-coming.
Becca boo is home for the Summer and it's been awesome to re-connect and hang out with her. She's become our weekly babysitter and it's great to see the kids bond with her even more.
Ham Fam Reunion 2011 is just around the corner. It.will.be.fantastic.
Goals: Wake up early again to be in the Word. Exercise. Get my house in order. Get pregnant. Host more Mary Kay parties and facials. Get a home school curriculum in place for Fall for Miss Reagy Roo. Learn new ways to encourage my hubby. Start taking Gideon out for mommy/son dates.

Now that I've changed my blog background and successfully rearranged some stuff and added a new header and actually blogged, I'm off to accomplish some of the above goals. Thanks for reading, you'll hear more from me soon. For real this time. I'm going to get better at this.

Nope

2010-12-31T10:26:00.000-08:00

My high hopes for Christmas-time blogging were defeated. Totally by self. With 2011 less than 11 hours away, here are some things I'm looking forward to beginning tomorrow morning:

having quality time in God's Word (book of John) and in prayer
being faithful to healthy menu planning
being faithful to exercising (p90x)
setting some moments aside to have quality time with Reagan and Gideon together and individually each day
de-decorating Christmas stuff
deep cleaning carpets and washing couch cushions and seat covers

By God's grace, 2011 will be the year we:

get pregnant with Wing baby #3
buy a mini van without a loan

By God's grace, Jason and I will be celebrating our 5 year anniversary January 28. Looking forward to 2011 and all God has in store for us and for those He's divinely placed in our lives.

Quick Catch Up

2010-12-01T10:54:00.000-08:00

Man...I'm the WORST at keeping up this blogging thing.

Maybe since I love my new background I'll be better at blogging. :) Good news is: 21 days till Mike, Maggie, Jonah, Bubba, and Uncle Chris come to OH for the holidays. More good news: 15 days till we leave for Michigan Christmas celebration with the Wings. Even more good news: date night tomorrow night. I need some quality time with Jason. Too much hectic stuff happening and it will be good to connect with the man of my dreams.

Ahh, December 1. Welcome--I've been so waiting for your arrival!

Summer 2010

2010-09-19T19:43:00.000-07:00

Reagan and Gideon have grown up so much these past few months. I'm amazed by how many small phrases Reagan has learned. She'll say things like, "Mommy, I just can't clean up the playroom right now. I have to watch my show." Or, "Gideon, that's so nice of you! Thank you for sharing--you love me so much." She's understanding more than sentence structure. She's learning everyday things, lies, truths, manipulation, how to serve, etc. I'm watching the battle between good and evil play out in her. We are born into sin, until God's grace and salvation is revealed, understood, and accepted by us (as ordained by God). And since Reagan is yet to be saved or even see or understand her need for a Savior, I'm witnessing her need for the Lord each day (the saved need Him each day, too!). Anyways, seeing her battle with her own sin is quite revealing. The days of temper tantrums and selfish behavior she had before she could reason or justify her actions are long gone. It's interesting to see her battle it out--respect/disrespect, obedience/disobedience, kindness/selfishness. As her mother I want to be there to correct her (in a non-nagging manner) and I do that often. I also end up nagging her and end up asking her to forgive me. Anyways--my point is, I'm not always correcting anymore. She's learning to self-correct and re-direct her thoughts and motives which in turn produces a changed attitude. While Christ isn't in her yet, she's learning what is right and wrong and how she can please Jesus in the mean time. And by "in the mean time" I'm referring to the time between right now and the day she is called into Christ's Kingdom through God's grace and Jesus' salvation.

Sweet Gideon is a charmer. His dimples and his cute little run make my heart burst with joy. He's saying so many words these days. And as much as I love his words, his tone and inflection are what really get me. Most heard words lately: bankie (blankie), vimaminmin (vitamin), dee-dee (candy & cookie), dooce (juice), megan (Reagan), e-uh-nuh (all done), mo (more), deese (cheese), apple, a-nana (banana), gate, potty, ah-ee (paci), and many more! He's a trooper and a stud. He falls down so many times a day and he rarely whimpers. He's climbing, jumping, bouncing, and he's all boy. I love that I have such an all-terrain little boy and a prim and proper and high-maintenance girl. They are so different but they love each other dearly. I've enjoyed watching the sister/brother bond grow stronger this Summer. Their fighting and lack of sharing has been less than acceptable and, oh, do they hear it from me! But on the flip side, their growth in love for one another has spoken so much to me.

Looking forward to Fall and all that the Lord has in store for our family. :)

These Two

2010-07-30T07:56:00.000-07:00

I love these two. And God has recently convicted me of a few things.

My time with the Lord has been lacking significantly.
This has affected my outlook on life, parenting, marriage, friendships, the Church, and myself.
Tunnel vision has taken over. What I mean by that is my selfish tendencies have skyrocketed in frequency and intensity. Being without quality time in the Word and in prayer has taken its toll on our family.
Thanks to my loving husband, I've been corrected, guided, Biblically encouraged, and gracefully lead back to my first love, Jesus.
These two darling children are gifts from God and it's my duty to make our house the most comfortable, relaxing, peaceful, loving, soul-soothing place on the earth for them.
I need to be in the Word before Jason or the kiddos wake up. I also need to pray prayers of gratitude and pray specifically for the kids' character as they grow and pray for Jason as he leads our family.
Waking up early is tough but once I get in the habit I know it will be the best part of my day. Just me, the Lord, His Word, and coffee.

A few blogs have truly inspired me and I know I didn't blog-hop by accident. God's sovereignty played a huge part. I encourage you to check these out and take tips, advice, etc. from fellow mothers who don't have it all figured out but who try their hardest. Why not gain from another's conviction and wisdom?

Check out:

www.inspiredtoaction.com, www.passionatehomemaking.com, and www.confessionsofahomeschooler.blogspot.com.

Wasting my time as a mother is not an option. Living as though Christ truly dwells in our lives and in our home needs to be evident. It's not something to fake. So here's to real life. Here's to conviction, a loving husband's straightforward correction, and two beautiful children who need to see Christ living in their mommy much more than they've ever seen.

I raise my caffeine-filled mug, head nod, sip, and sigh with the hope of starting fresh, with intention and conviction.

Cheers.

Boston...from forever ago part 2

2010-07-08T08:35:00.000-07:00

Pics from my last day in Boston.

Couldn't resist this cutie. I'm so glad he accompanied me the whole trip. :)

Boston, MA from the ferry that took us to the U.S.S. Constitution.

The U.S.S. Constitution. The Navy's oldest, seaworthy vessel.

I know, so attractive. Maggie and I downed these footlong dogs. Delicious!

Jonah boy and I standing outside Paul Revere's home. Right across the street there's an Italian Catholic church and play yard. We ate canolis for the second day in a row across from Paul's house. Talk about surreal!

Mike, Jonah, and I as we head to the top of the "Pru" (not pictured). We decided to take the T rather than walk it. Glad we did!

The Boston Library. It was closed but Mike did an awesome job showing off (in humility) his literary expertise. It's a beautiful site and I can't wait to visit again!

Berenstain Bears

2010-07-04T06:08:00.000-07:00

Today is Independence day! Happy 4th to us. As I helped Reagan out of bed this morning, I explained that today is a very special day for our country.

Me: Reagan, did you know today is a very special day? We get to celebrate!

Reagan: Yes, today is Easter. But I'm not celebrating.

Me: Well, it's not Easter. It's the 4th of July! That means we thank God for our country. Do you know what country we live in? We live in America!

Reagan: Yes. And the Berenstain bears live here, too. That's why we have to celebrate.

And there you have it. Happy 4th to all, and the Berenstain bears, of course.

Boston...from forever ago

2010-07-02T06:06:00.000-07:00

May 11-15 I had the pleasure of going to Boston, MA to visit my brother, sister-in-law, and sweet nephew, Jonah. I have to say it's the most wonderful city I've ever visited. All the history, Italian food, and the granite curbs impressed me the most. Since I am an early American history-lover, Boston has become a treasured city and a place I must visit often. Here are some pics from the trip. Mike and Maggie, your hospitality will never be forgotten--I can't thank you enough for all the good times and for sharing your dear son with me. **Maggie Hamilton is an established tour guide so any and all questions can be directed to her.**

The Hamilton Family

Boston, come and get us!

"Make Way for Ducklings" statues were built just for us to take this picture. Sister, brother, and tired nephew.

To be read before entering the cemetery where Revere, Franklin, and Mother Goose (to name a few) have been laid to rest.

In place of a sidewalk slab, this says no buildings or signs may obstruct the view from this place as the Old North Church is clearly seen from here. Two lanterns were hung to tell Paul Revere that the Brits were coming..."One if by land, two if by sea."

And there she is, the Old North Church (in mega zoom) from the above picture.

The site of the Boston Massacre. The very site! A little overwhelming.

An odd picture, but the ivory colored roof is actually the bottom of the balcony the U.S. Constitution was read from for Bostonians to hear for the very first time after it was signed in Philadelphia.

And we got hungry, so little Italy, also called the North End, took great care of us.

Michael and Jonah boy

(not sure why this is in link type)

Maybe he had some gas?

He's so happy with his mama!

My favorite picture. A statue of Paul Revere in front of the Old North Church where two lanterns were hung to warn of the British coming to invade, where resistance met them at Lexington & Concord, MA.

There are still gatherings held here each week, although it's livlihood for Christ is dull.

For all my Arminian friends with terrible theology, here's your boy, Wesley. :)

We sat in Paul Revere's son's Old North Church booth.

There it is! The actual site of the lanterns. I get chills every time I see this.

And maybe we were tired after all the site-seeing. Maggie doubled up.

He's the cutest little Bostonian.

Nothing could have ended our wonderful day like canolis from Mike's Pastries. They overnight ship their goods, maybe an order needs to be in the works...

More pics to come at a later date--this was just day two of four. It was the greatest get a way. Thanks, J and Mom, for making this trip happen.

Before I forget

2010-05-06T19:29:00.000-07:00

Forgetting things is ranked rather high on my 'skills' list these days. So before I can't recall these sweet words from Reagan, I had better type them to remember always. On our way home from my parents' house tonight Reagan said:

"Look at dat star! God made dat star. I like to obey God. And I like to obey Jesus. Jesus is good. I like to give hugs for Him. And, and, and He's alive! He is risen! He is risen, indeed! Yeah. And look at dat star, and dat one, and..."

Truth from her mouth is golden.

Spring 2010

2010-05-05T08:07:00.001-07:00

Here are some pics of the kiddos. It's so fun to dress them in non-layered, Winter gear all the time. I love how much time is saved by not having to bundle them up in puffy coats that cause car seat anxt. Or wiggling boots on their little feet, or having to find Reagan's scarf that her brother hid in the bathtub. With my keys. (Can you tell I don't like Winter outerwear?) All that to say, here are some cutie kids that are enjoying Spring:

Up and Running

2010-05-02T18:36:00.000-07:00

Do you ever have one of those tasks that you keep avoiding because you know it will only discourage and frustrate you? My task that haunted me for almost 4 months, yes--1/3 of a year, was getting this blog back up and running. And all it took was a little motivation to face my fear and finally do it. Amazingly, it didn't take me 4+ hours to fix, merely 30 minutes. Guess all I really needed to do was read some instructions. Sometimes things can be so easy when you remove yourself from the situation for a time and come back to it. Although stepping back for 4 months is a little extreme. So, I'm glad this is working again. I have so much to share! Reagan and Gideon are my joys and I couldn't be more grateful that the diary of their childhood (via blogging) is back in full swing. Here are some highlights from the past 1/3 of our year:

Jason and I celebrated 4 years of marriage January 28 **love you, J.Wing!**
Gideon turned 1 February 25
Gideon had some health scares and had ear tubes put in March 3
(He's now been healthy for 4 weeks in a row, progress is before us!)
My nephew, Jonah Michael Hamilton, was born March 18. He's a stud.
My old roommate from Cedarville got married and I was reunited with my old "Preddies" March 27
I turned 27
Jason turned 33
Jason completed his extreme P90X workout program and lost 18 lbs.!
My nephew, Gibson Jude Wing, turned 5. Also a stud.
My sister, Rebecca Hamilton, starred as Lady Capulet in her High School's Spring play
Our Hamilton family reunion brought my sis-in-law, Maggie Hamilton, to Dayton with sweet baby Jonah. It was a surprise and it was pulled off wonderfully!
We enjoyed spending time with Bubba, Uncle Alan, Lydia, Eric, Elijah, Haven, baby in Lyd's belly, Abigail, Joseph, Bella, Miles (in Ab's belly), Michael, Maggie, Jonah, Mom, Dad, & the star of the weekend, Rebecca

And now that this blog-savvy girl is back on track, you'll be seein' more of us! Soon!

under construction

2010-01-07T14:06:00.000-08:00

Well I've really done it this time. While trying to copy and paste widgets from an old blog template I deleted lots of things by accident. I'm trying to start all over but I think everything I've blogged about for the past few years is gone. Working on it!

Happenings

2009-12-14T07:57:00.001-08:00

This month has been a busy one! But what family's December isn't? I've enjoyed watching Reagan respond to all the Christmas decor, lighting, songs, and stories. We love explaining why we celebrate Christmas and how Jesus' birthday is so special. She gets a little more with each passing week. Here are some pics of our month so far. We're going to Michigan in a few days so we'll have plenty of Wing family pics to share.

Looking forward to: time with some amazing girlfriends this evening, Uncle Chris coming into town tonight, staff/elder Christmas dinner tomorrow night at Bravo, HC multiplication discussion part 2, trip to Michigan (please sleep, children!), great times with Jason's family, Mike, Maggie, and Jonah (in utero) coming to Dayton for a while, and Maggie's baby shower.

Below: Christmas ornaments from Grammy. Reagan's theme is snowflakes, Gideon's is reindeer.

Christmas Time is Here!

2009-12-01T17:18:00.001-08:00

Christmas is finally here!

Here are some pics of our pre-decorated tree with my 3 favorites. What a handful and joy my children are these days. For example, here's a random conversation I'll type as I converse with Reagan. I got this idea from my sis in law, Amber. It's been the source of many laughs! Here we go...

Me: Whatca doin'?

Reagan: H, I, J, K, L, M, N, O, P

Me: Like the Christmas tree?

R: Yeah, it's really high! Daddy bring it. I better see dat. And my kitchen. Thanks, Mom!

Ok, that was a lot shorter than I was hoping. But still fun.

Silas AND Hamlet!!

2009-09-20T09:57:00.001-07:00

Yesterday we had the honor and blessing of meeting Silas Yegermal Wing! Jason picked Phil, Amber, and Silas up from the Columbus airport while the rest of the family waited at Phil and Amber's house for their arrival. Phil and Amber requested Gibson and Maya be on the front porch waiting for them to pull up with baby Silas in tow! After the family of five reunited in the front yard, we were able to greet them as they walked into their home with sweet Silas. Phil's parents were there, as well as Amber's parents, sister and her family, and the Zeunes joined us later. It's so neat to see how the Zeunes have walked through this entire process with Phil and Amber as they have a 16 month old son, Mathios, who is recently adopted as well and was only 4 beds away from Silas back in the transition home in Ethiopia. How great is that! Best friends adopting together and their babies growing up together. The cousins played together for a while then we had a fantastic dinner which consisted of my favorite, Marco's pizza, and lots of desserts. The carrot cake and chocolate chip cookie bars were delightful. Silas was tuckered out and went to sleep at 6:30, just before we decided to leave and give the new family of 5 a much needed break and some space.

I'm such a proud aunt of Silas AND....baby Hamilton, too!). Yep-you heard it right...I'm going to be an aunt to Mike and Maggie's baby due April 2! :) Maggie is just over 11 weeks pregnant. Thank you, Lord, for the blessing of babies!!

Good News

2009-09-15T19:29:00.000-07:00

We had our meeting with the neurosurgeon today and it was great! Here's what we know: Gideon has a Chiari (kee-AR-ee) malformation near the base of his brain. Basically, his big, smart brain is too big for his skull and his cerebellar tonsils (yes, we have tonsils in the base of our brain) hang into his spinal column. This means there's a potential for blockage of his spinal fluid but right now we're in the clear! He'll need to be seen in three months to do another checkup. He won't need another MRI unless his check up goes poorly. But I was amazed by how well Gideon was doing today with each test the doctor performed. He's such a trooper! After his next appointment, if all goes well, he'll be seen six months after that, then yearly. We are such relieved parents. Thank you, again, for your prayers and encouraging words. We're so thankful for you all. God has heard our many prayers to Him!

(hope you don't mind, I copy and pasted this from an email I sent out earlier)

Praise the Lord for His sovereign hands and great doctors!

The Latest Lesson

2009-09-12T09:26:00.001-07:00

Just thought I'd give an update on our sweet Gideon. I've not posted on his health situation so I thought I'd better get to it! Before I get to typing please know that your prayers are needed and appreciated in regards to little Gid.

At Gideon's 6 month check up I asked our pediatrician if his head looked OK to her. She said it looked a little wider and asymmetrical in the back. Deb, our pediatrician, thought it may be best to have it looked at it further. Gideon had an ultrasound done and the results weren't perfect. So we were encouraged to have an MRI set up for Gideon, which was last Wednesday. We got the results on Thursday and it looks like he has enlarged ventricles, which are areas where spinal fluid flows in and out of the brain and spinal column. It looks like there is some sort of blockage, resulting in Gideon's head growing at a much faster rate than the rest of his body. This speedy growth in his head size (from 50th to 90th percentile in 6 months) was the kicker for us thinking there may be a problem. So now we wait and we are scheduled to see a neurosurgeon, Dr. Kleiner, at Children's on Tuesday at 4:00.

Please pray for us as we discuss options for Gideon. Surgery seems to be the most ideal option from all the information we have. But as many of you know, no parent loves the idea of their baby being put under and having surgery.

Our hearts are heavy. The Lord is certainly growing Jason and I as we wait on Him and have to trust in His perfect plan. I was just telling Jason a few weeks ago that I'm so reluctant to confess my fears to the Lord because I know He'll test me (to grow me, not harm me). Sure enough, when I surrendered my fears and areas of worries to the Lord, Gideon's brain/ventricle issue was brought to our attention.

Gideon is a wonderful little boy who can melt any one's heart. Brain problems or not, he's the best son any parent could ask for. I'll keep you updated after Tuesday's appointment.

Obedience is so cute

2009-08-18T09:57:00.000-07:00

As soon as you walk in our home you'll be greeted by a pile of shoes on the floor to your left. There's a mental plan for a more organized system but I haven't quite reached that chore on my list of to-do's yet. Anyways, this morning as Reagan was helping me tidy up our living room, I asked her to put her shoes by the door. Bless her sweet little heart. She did just that.

Mommy Fix It

2009-08-16T10:20:00.000-07:00

So this story makes my heart smile...

Last week Jason took Reagan for a hike so I could have some girl time. The ladies from my house church came over so we could re-divide into smaller quads. It's always very helpful when Jason and Reagan go on their daddy daughter date on the nights I have quads or a night out to myself, or what have you.

Anyways--Jason and Reagan went on a 3 mile hike rather than a 3/4 mile hike (thanks to his color blind issue, he couldn't see which trail was which color, thus the longer hike than planned.) Jason pointed out all the trees that had fallen down in the woods and her response was priceless...

"Mommy fix it."

Ahh, it's nice to know she thinks so highly of me. :)

Emotions

2009-07-09T19:29:00.001-07:00

Well this is aweful. Sorry it's been so long since I've updated. I'm on Facebook a lot so my blogging life has taken quite the hit. I need to get better at this, I'll just add it to my to-do list...thanks for understanding!

Now that both babies are asleep and I have time to digest some thoughts, I'm realizing how emotional this past month has been for our family. With my dad having crazy things happen with his job, Phil and Amber having ups and downs with the adoption of Silas, and discipline issues with Reagan coming up, it's been rough! But we know God is sovereign in all things and He's not surprised by our family troubles.

You could pray for peace as Phil and Amber wait on a second court date. The Ethiopian courts usually close during rainy season and we're praying they remain open so families waiting to get their sons and daughters through adoption aren't held up even more. (Also, a good friend of the family, the Zeunes, are going to get their son, Mathios, in 8 days. Mathios hasn't been on the greatest eating-streak since he's joined the transition home and the Zeunes could use prayer as they prepare to travel, meet, and parent little Mathios in only 8 days!)

There's a lot more to share but I'm tired and since I've promised to be better at updating my blog, I can share it in a few days! :)

Spring Pics

2009-06-17T10:15:00.000-07:00

This Spring (almost Summer) has been so great! God has blessed us with wonderful weather and we've enjoyed being outside A LOT! Mom and Dad had a pool put in last Fall and now that the weather is oh-so-warm, we're visiting their pool about 4 times a week. Mom, Dad, and Becca have put up with me and the kids and we're thankful for their hospitality, food, and pool! Below are pics of Jason and Reagan playing at a park, Memorial day fun with our cousins from Columbus, a visit from Aunt Maggie, and a summer night in Grammy and Pops' back yard. And some of the best news of the Spring (which unfortunately we can't post pics of, yet) is the news that Phil and Amber got their referral and are waiting for their seven month old son to join them from Ethiopia! Once he's officially their baby I'll post pics of him and let you know his name and all that. Praise the Lord for growing our family!

Fantastic Recipe

2009-05-28T10:19:00.000-07:00

Here's a recipe that's delicious! Get ready, tastebuds.

Grilled Lime Chicken
Prep: 15 min. + marinating
Grill: 10 min.

1/2 cup plus 1 Tbsp. freshly squeezed lime juice
6 Tbsp. olive oil
3 Tbsp. minced fresh parsley OR 1 Tbsp. dried parsley
3 Tbsp. grated lime peel
1-1/2 tsp. minced garlic
3/4 tsp. salt
3/4 tsp. dried thyme
3/4 tsp. marjoram
3/4 tsp. pepper
6 boneless skinless chicken breast halves

In a small bowl, combine the first nine ingredients. Pour 1/3 cup marinade into a large resealable plastic bag OR tupperware container with lid. Seal and turn to coat; refrigerate for up to one hour. Cover and refrigerate remaining marinade.

Drain and discard marinade. Grill chicken, covered over medium heat for 5-8 minutes per side. Baste occasionally with remaining marinade.

**to get the most lime juice, microwave limes for 30 seconds before slicing in half and squeezing. A juicer (electric or hand) is helpful but not necessary.

Springy Wingys

2009-05-05T09:58:00.000-07:00

Spring is finally here! With all the wonderful weather lately we've had lots of trips to the park behind Grammy and Pops' house. Swinging is one of Reagan's favorite things to do. She'll ask if she can go on the, "WEE!" Then she'll ask for the "sly?" (slide). There's lots of fun to be had these days. And Gideon is really growing up, too! This morning he reached out and grabbed the toy cow that's attached to his jungle gym mat. Definitely a first and worthy of posting. Thanks, Lord, for a wonderful family and two kids who are growing up too fast.

Recent Pics

2009-04-20T13:30:00.001-07:00

Jason is 32!

2009-04-10T12:47:00.001-07:00

My handsome husband turned 32 yesterday! We had a wonderful day celebrating...here's what went down: Every Thursday Jason spends the majority of his day at Dayton Christian since it's chapel day. (If you didn't know this already, Jason is working part-time at DC to coordinate chapels and do some counseling for male students.) And since Dayton Christian is on Spring break, Jason didn't have to go in to DC yesterday. He requested to sleep in on his bday and he certainly did! He wanted to watch an episode of The West Wing and then go for a jog. He needed to work at Apex for a few hours and have a couple meetings, so afterwards we met up and got straight to celebrating! Spontaneity was the word of the day! We decided it would be fun to just do whatever we wanted...the kids were with my parents, I had extra milk for Gideon all ready to go so we could be gone for a while. And we were runnin' round town like we did when we were dating and had not a care in the world. Jason thought it would be fun to go to BW3s for an appetizer, the tastiness of Southwest Dippers is indescribable. Then we went to Chipotle for dinner, his steak fajita burrito was quite the sight! And then we went to UDF for his favorite thing lately, a rootbeer float. Then back to my parent's house to get the kids! Reagan was a tired little lady but was still fun to play and talk with. And Gideon looked at Jason for a long time, just staring away at his great daddy. When we came home and the kids were asleep, we ended the day with another episode of The West Wing. It was a fun day, I know he enjoyed it. And the best part is he got what he's been asking for for over a year now. His very own UFC zip up hoodie. Happy Birthday, J! You're a hot 32.

My cutie pie

2009-04-07T18:24:00.000-07:00

Reagan is always into something these days. She loves to talk up a storm if someone's around to listen or not. Being a big sister is right up her alley, too! So in honor of my first-born being so grown-up and such a helper to me since Gideon's arrival, here is a blog of pics which feature only her. (I'm trying to upload a video but I can't get anything to work properly.)

And more pictures!

2009-03-12T15:56:00.000-07:00

Here are some pictures of us in the hospital before Gideon's arrival, during our stay, and after we came home. We've been busy but the adjustment has been so much better than I imagined. God has answered my prayers and has taken away the fears of being a mom of two so close in age. Of course, Gideon sleeping 22 hours a day has a lot to do with how easy things are. But still...He has answered.

Some Pics of Gideon

2009-03-06T14:31:00.000-08:00

Here are some pics that Amy took of Gideon last week. She's doing new stuff with profiles, I'd say I'm a fan!

On Our Way

2009-02-25T07:32:00.000-08:00

Today is the day! Gideon Justus will be born around 1:00 and we couldn't be happier!

...Pics will be posted soon...

Nesting and To Do's

2009-02-22T06:39:00.001-08:00

Well as the ticker on the left so clearly informs me, only three more days till Gideon arrives! We're so excited about the big day. And with all the excitement comes the stress of finishing things up around the house so that when he arrives it's smooth sailing. Here is a list of things I have yet to do that I want to get done:

oil change, air filter change, and battery replacement in the Lumina
finish putting all Gideon's clothes away
put the cradle in our room and the changing table in his
wash the car seat cover and bouncy seat cover in baby detergent
clean out basement refrigerator
fix leaks in the basement sink and pipe
deep clean living room carpet
change furnace filter
finish thank you notes from the baby shower
put porch furniture where it belongs...on the porch rather than back yard
(not really thinking Gideon will care about above task)
re-install both car seats in lumina
pay Jason's MRI bill
reorganize our medical/bill file folder to prepare for the plethora of new bills coming
clean fans in all rooms
grocery shopping
regular daily chores/housekeeping
pack a hospital bag for myself, Jason, and Gideon
pack a stay-at-Grammy and Pops' house bag for Reagan

Since this list is on my mind all the time, I thought I'd blog about it...seems like I'll keep myself more accountable now that it's out there for all to read. More in the days to come!

The Haunted Tree

2009-02-14T05:48:00.000-08:00

We have this tree in our backyard that is wonderful in the Spring and Summer! It blocks out lots of sunlight, which in turn reduces our electric bill thanks to the AC not running as much. It has beautiful leaves which makes any seasonally-depressed Ohio resident smile. However, when there's a storm like last September's wind storm, or an ice storm, or any sort of weather bearing winds over 10mph, we start to worry. This old tree is so tall and has so many branches that other branches grow from...and to summarize, it becomes a danger when wind is involved. All that to say with the wind storm we had a few days ago, some big limbs snapped and landed in Kendall's back yard (again) and on our garage. I called the City of Dayton to say one of their trees has landed on private property and to please come fix it. (I didn't know it was a City of Dayton tree, but Dad advised me to just say it to get them out here quicker. And within two hours they were here with a crane and cherry-picker!) Here are pics from the big event!

Our Comedian

2009-01-29T06:47:00.000-08:00

There's just no explaination for this cutie...

The kids!

2009-01-26T19:31:00.000-08:00

News, news, news!

Little Reagan does indeed have another double ear infection. This is her fifth one since August. I took her in today and she's on antibiotics again and our nurse was as caring and concerned as always. She mentioned that if Reagan has another ear infection within 6-8 weeks we should see an ENT specialist to discuss options for her, i.e. tubes. She's doing much better now that she has motrin in her...hopefully she'll feel the healing effects of the antibiotics in another day or so.

And sir Gideon's due date will officially be Feb. 25. Dr. Sanford is willing to do it even though he'll be just hours shy of 39 weeks old. It will be different this time around for sure because Reagan was late and he'll be early--I'm interested to see the difference between a late baby and an early baby.

Jason and I will celebrate three years of marriage on Wednesday! And to top it off, we're supposed to have lots of snow by Wed. morning--snow day for us, perfect timing. :) Thanks for reading and keeping up with us.

Week-at-a-glance and very much randomness

2009-01-23T13:27:00.000-08:00

This week has been eventful! Sorta. Jason took off for Orlando Wednesday afternoon so Reagan and I have been staying at my parents home. We went to HC at the Bailey's and when that was over we took off to the Hamilton household. Since we've been here, a small cold has turned into a full-blown cold. But thankfully I'm starting to get over it. And Reagan just sneezed green 10 minutes ago...so it's now in her little system. By Monday or Tuesday it will have developed into a double ear infection, so a Dr. visit is inevitable for early next week. It's so amazing how the Lord lets moms in on the secrets about their kids' immune systems. "Always trust your gut when it comes to their health and safety", is a phrase I heard the most while pregnant with Reagan. And it's a phrase I'll tell every new parent because it's true. Anyways, on from that tangent...

Jason comes back tonight so we'll be picking him up from the airport and I'm so very excited to see him. Reagan's been walking around they house saying, "Da-ee", holding up her hands like she's asking a question. It's really cute!

Wednesday will be our three year anniversary! Can't believe it's been three years already. God has definitely grown us and I'm so thankful. We'll be spending Wednesday night at Apex for a discipleship event, so we'll be celebrating our anniversary on Friday and Saturday...looking forward to some alone time, especially since Gideon will be joining us soon. :)

There's really no cohesion to this blog, sorry for that. It's been such a blessing to be at mom and dad's while Jason's been away. I don't know what I'd do if we lived far from them.

Update on Gideon

2009-01-19T10:08:00.001-08:00

Wow...two blogs posts in one day! This morning I had a Dr. appt. with my OB, whom I love dearly, and we discussed some things. Turns out the date of Gideon's c-section (Feb. 25) puts Gideon at 38 weeks and 6 days gestation. Miami Valley Hospital has a rule against doing C-sections before a baby is officially 39 weeks old. So, in order to avoid a possible repromand, we may push the C-section back a day to the 26th. However, since Dr. Sanford leaves for vacation that day, I may be with a different OB from the practice. And I'm ok with that, but my preference would be to have Dr. Sanford do it since she did such a great job with Reagan. And she's a perfectionist...just the type of person I want doing anything surgical on me. Ya know?

So as of now his arrival date is still the 25th. Also, according to his last ultrasound taken two weeks ago, his measurments bump his due date up from March 5 (orignal due date) to Feb. 23! He's a big, big boy! And if the theories prove correctly in that daughters usually take after their mother's birth patterns, Gideon will be born early. For example--I was born 7 days late and my brother was born 12 days early. Reagan was born 5 days late, maybe Gideon will be born early?

Although there are lots of unknowns right now, I have to say I'm very excited. Gideon's room has been cleaned out, his crib is up (still need to buy a mattress for him), and painting is next. Reagan has been such a joy this week--a little babbler who tells you what she thinks anytime you ask her, or don't ask her, all with a very serious look on her face. :) My children are a blessing, I can't wait to hold them both at the same time...and that will be Feb. 25th or 26th. And either day is perfect.

Obama: abortion-supporter/enabler

2009-01-19T05:36:00.000-08:00

Hello to all reading this post!

If you've not heard of the Freedom of Choice Act, please visit this website and educate yourself. Then, if your heart leads, please sign the petition. Our president-elect is misguided for allowing partial-birth abortions to be considered again, as well as allowing babies born due to botched abortions to be cast aside until they die. Read on and sign.

www.fightfoca.com

Let's Grow, Reagan, Let's Grow!

2009-01-16T11:06:00.001-08:00

Reagan had her 15 month well-baby check up today. She's doing great!

Her verbal/communication skills continue to be ahead of the game...which is great--I'm conversing with a one year old!

Her weight however, is seriously lacking. She continues to decline in the percentiles...only in the 5th percentile this time. But I was encouraged to add Pediasure to her selection of daily beverages as well as no more whole milk mixed with chocolate. It's all whole milk with chocolate syrup from now on to increase her calorie intake. She's supposed to eat high calorie meals like mac & cheese, but she already does that. I guess now that she's walking she's "workin' out" a lot more than I expected...so up goes the calorie count. Her height is fine, a little under the 50th percentile, and you guessed it--her head is still above the 90th percentile.

Reagan was breech for a long time in utero...which we're discovering could pose some major problems for her down the road. Because she was breech for a while her hip sockets may not have developed properly, so she'll be getting an x-ray done next week just to make sure everything looks ok. If anything does go wrong, I'm sure we can work on it now rather than prepare her for hip replacements when she's 35 or 40. Geesh, who knew breech positioning could be so complicated?? All of this came to light because she's had a hard time learning how to lay down. She just learned two nights ago...we're not sure why the delay, so Deb, our nurse practitioner, suggested said x-rays. I'm sure it will all work out! And to top off the Dr. visit, she got four immunizations today. Poor baby!

Say a prayer for us, we're having car troubles--Lina the Lumina won't start. Battery's great, but maybe the alternator's busted? Jason was awesome and transfered the carseat to his car (in zero degree weather). He may be bumming rides for a while so I can have the car with the car seat. Always something with the cars...at least we have cars!

I'll end on a good note: praise God for the 150 people who survived yesterday's landing in the Hudson River, for good friends going to Zambia to serve the Lord, for friends coming over for fellowship tonight, a wonderful family, for a great and healthy marriage that gets better with each new challenge, for a warm home, and a comfy bed, a son joining us in 40 days, and finally, for a good cup of coffee.

Ge--EE

2009-01-12T06:17:00.000-08:00

We had spaghetti for dinner last night and Reagan loved loved loved it! We prompted her to say the daunting "spaghetti" word for a while and finally she said, "ge-EE...yum, yum,".

Our Little Man, Gideon!

2009-01-06T12:46:00.000-08:00

We had a second ultrasound today to check out Gideon's heart, brain, and spine. We didn't get a good look the first time because he was too active. Today we learned he definitely is a boy and are proud to announce some of his statistics!

Due Date: March 5
Date of C-section: February 25
Starts his 33rd week inside Mommy tomorrow (Wed.)
Estimated weight as of today's ultrasound: 4lbs. 8oz.
Growth percentile as of today: 62nd
Heart rate: 145 beats per minute
Head down, face down...prime positioning for a normal birth, but no chance! :)
And unlike his big sister, he'll have hair when he's born!

Sucking his thumb

Pointing his warrior-like left index finger

Bath Beauty

2009-01-05T10:16:00.000-08:00

It's been way too long since I've taken pics of Reagan in the tub. Here are some recent favorites:

More Pics!

2009-01-01T06:54:00.001-08:00

Maggie took some great pics during their visit. Here are some of my favs...

Christmas Fun

2008-12-30T06:06:00.000-08:00

Our Christmas season was a blast! We spent Christmas Eve Eve with the Barkers, Uncle Chris, and Bubba at Longhorn Steakhouse--tradition! Christmas Eve day we were with Uncle Scott and his family from Columbus and they joined us for the Apex Christmas Eve service, and Christmas day was busy busy! We began the day at our home, just the three of us. Reagan woke up rather late and when she came downstairs she saw one of her presents already set up...a baby doll stroller! After the dolly stroller was discovered we had cinnamon rolls for breakfast and read the story of Jesus' birth from Reagan's story book Bible (thanks to Aunt Kendall). We opened presents at home and then headed to my parents' home in Beavercreek for a few hours of Christmas.

We enjoyed sticky buns, appetizers, punch, coffee, wassail, and of course...visiting with Mike and Maggie who flew in from Boston Christmas morning. After the family reflected on the Christmas song, O Holy Night, and a time of prayer, we opened stockings and presents. Very fun!

A few hours later we headed for Michigan to spend time with Jason's side of the family. It was the smoothest drive to Michigan we've ever had. No construction, no traffic, great weather, and a pretty happy 14 month old all made for a trip made in 4 hours rather than the usual 5 hours. We spent time with Mema, Mike, LaRae and had a good time of catch up while we waited for Phil, Amber, Gibson, and Maya to join us the next day. That evening we read the Christmas story (KJV style) and reflected on Jesus' birth, followed by presents. Reagan didn't sleep very well in Mi, so her attitude was lacking a certain usual charm. Nevertheless, it was a good night.

The next day we enjoyed time with the fam and got ready for the Wing Family Christmas with about 45 family members, hosted by Jeff and Cathy Rider. Whoa was that crowded but so great! I can't imagine what the next few years will bring as the family continues to expand with children! So...that's our Christmas story this year--next year Gideon will be a 10 month old, Reagan will be 2 and 2 months old, and we'll have our little nephew from Ethiopia with us as well. O Come, O Come 2009.

And I'll end with this--Mike and Mags joined us yesterday morning for breakfast from Cracker Barrel. They bought us the goodies and came over to our home. We had great conversation and it was so wonderful to catch up with them. I miss them being close in proximity, but I know we're still close even though they live in Boston. Maggie and I went shopping yesterday and boy did I luck out with maternity clothes! Money from family and M&M deciding to treat me to some extra clothes really helped as I was in desperate need of clothes, especially jeans. Thanks M&M! :) And thanks to all who have read this very long blog.

Laptop!

2008-12-25T07:39:00.000-08:00

Jason gave me a laptop this morning! YES!

Too Long

2008-12-23T05:34:00.000-08:00

Merry Christmas! I'm sorry for the long delay in posting...it's been hectic!

Here's the latest from our little corner of the world...

Jason having a sinus infection/cold for a few weeks
Jason preaching a wonderful sermon on John 1:1-18 this past weeked at Apex
Reagan having a double ear infection and sinus infection
Reagan on antibiotics!
Bubba and Uncle Chris coming to Dayton
Gideon growing like a weed, a cute and handsome weed
FREEZING weather, thankfully the temps are rising and the ice on the inside of our windows is beginning to melt
Christmas gifts being purchased, wrapped, making the bottom of our tree look pretty
Laundry, packing, and house cleaning begins today to make for a smooth trip to MI Christmas afternoon day
Looking forward to a nice day with Reagan at home as she's recovering
Looking forward to Longhorn with the Barkers, Hamiltons, Bubba, and UC tonight, Christmas Eve day meal tomorrow, Christmas Eve service, Christmas Day!
Looking forward to seeing our snow-soaked Mike and Maggie for a few hours Christmas day
Christmas get together with the Wings on the 27th in Flint-town!
Looking forward to not getting any more germs over the holidays. Enough is enough!
Hopefully some quality time with M&M before they head home
Merry Christmas to all!

I know I just posted this morning, but this needs to be read...

2008-12-06T08:40:00.000-08:00

Phil and Amber are at a wedding this morning and we are watching Gib and Maya! We're having a blast so far. It's snowing pretty hard outside and we're cozy watching The Incredibles. Right before I put the dvd in, Gib and I had a small conversation that went like this:

Gibson: Oh no, where is uncle JJ going?

Me: He’s going upstairs, he needs to lay down for 15 minutes because he has a headache.

Gibson: Oh, when I get bigger, I’m gonna marry Haven and grow bigger and bigger and sometimes when I sleep I’m gonna have a bad headache.

Me: You’re gonna marry Haven?

Gibson: Uh-huh, and my headache is gonna eat you. Let’s watch a movie!

Thanksgiving!

2008-12-06T06:00:00.002-08:00

We went to Pennsylvania for Thanksgiving this year. It was a very quick trip but worth the long drive. We spent time with Uncle Al, who opened his home to us--and who's very proud of his refinished bathroom. We spent Thanksgiving meal with Uncle Al, Grandma and Grandpa at their retirement home in Myerstown. It was wonderful to be with them and see them with Reagan. On Friday we spent some time with Aunt Janet before we headed home. And on our way back to Dayton we stopped to see one of my dearest college friends, Gretchen! Looking forward to next year. (Reagan's cute outfit is from Uncle Mike and Aunt Maggie).

Pics from the Rockies!

2008-12-01T17:48:00.000-08:00

Yikes! This past week was nuts...in a good way. Jason and I came home from Denver last Sunday and three days later we packed up and headed for Pennsylvania. And this time, Reagan came with us, no more traveling without her for a long time! I have lots of details to share from our Thanksgiving trip to PA, but I can't get ahead of the events. Here are some Denver pics, I will never forget the beauty of Colorado.

Rockies Rock

2008-11-22T17:03:00.000-08:00

Jason and I have enjoyed being together in Denver, Colorado these last 48 hours. We are here celebrating the marriage of Josh and Emily Radcliffe, now husband and wife! Jason did an awesome job officiating the ceremony today. It was so neat that all of the Wings were here, minus Reagan, of course. (Thanks to Mom and Dad and Becca for watching her while Jason and I are here!) Phil led worship, Amber was a beautiful bridesmaid, Gibson was the ringbearer, and Maya was one of the flower girls. It was a gorgeous day for a gorgeous wedding. Yesterday, however, was just as awesome for Jason and I. We ran some errands in the morning and decided to drive into the Rocky Mountains. We just kind of headed their direction and ended up in the beautiful snow capped mountains. We were well over 10,000 feet above sea level and it was truly amazing. We drove through the curvy roads in silence for a while, just looking at all the trees and at what was ahead of us. We talked a bit and then listened to "Beautiful" by Phil Wickham. How appropriate! I'll never forget yesterday and the mountains God created for his glory and for our enjoyment. We wil be back someday with Reagan and Gideon, and maybe any other children God blesses us with. We are thankful for this trip we've had together, though! No matter how grand these mountains, we're ready to be with our Reagan.

What if I just want to?

2008-11-17T09:05:00.000-08:00

Well just like I had the "hurry up, autumn" syndrome, I now have the "hurry up, Christmas" syndrome. I'm really thinking about putting up our Christmas tree this week before we head for Denver. I know I'm crazy for thinking that--I have not the time for such things. But I can't help it, I love Christmas. (How cute are these two from last Christmas?)

This upcoming Thursday will be bittersweet for us. Jason and I will be going to Denver for a wedding Jason is officiating! However, our little Reagan will be staying back in Dayton. My parents will be watching her for us while we're in Denver for the weekend. I'm not going to do well saying goodbye to my little one--I'm dreading Thursday, yet I'm so ready for time with Jason. We'll enjoy his last few days of sabbatical together focusing on our marriage and what the future holds for us in the areas of family, work, and the holidays.

Looking forward to: Quads on Wednesday night, Denver on Thursday, the wedding on Saturday, seeing Reagan again on Sunday, watching more West Wing (whenever the dvd is returned to the library so we can borrow it, immediately), going to Pennsylvania to spend Thanksgiving with my grandparents and Uncle Al, watching more West Wing, Recipe Club, West Wing...and Mike and Maggie coming back for Joey and Jenny's wedding!

This is how we do it...

2008-11-13T19:49:00.000-08:00

Jason and I have been enjoying his sabbatical...many good talks, lots of play time together with Reagan, and lots of watching episodes of the first season of The West Wing. It all started a few weeks ago when the Bravo channel was playing lots of episodes of the West Wing. Jason said, "I think I could really get into this show, can we start watching the first season together?" That was music to my ears! What could be better than watching my favorite show and hearing Jason say he wants to join me...at the beginning! I wonder if that's how Jason would feel if I said I'd want to watch football with him. Something to think about--but not too seriously.

A few more...and some personal growth

2008-11-09T06:53:00.000-08:00

This week has been a whirlwind! I do apologize for not keeping up my blog as much as I could...but we all know what craziness is like. Jason has been on his sabatical for the past week and a half. He's been so helpful when he's able to be around...most of the time he's working on his papers for seminary. Thankfully, two are finished and he has one more to go. Then he'll be caught up with the rest of his class. I will say the Lord has been growing us in uncomfortable ways during this break. It's almost as if the time of rest and renewal we were supposed to enjoy was eaten up by arguing and miscommunication. The Lord has shown me how important it is to first of all, NOT have expectations, and second, to not hold him to those expectations that I haven't even informed him of. He's had his share of struggles which he'd admit--but the Lord laid our time of frustration aside Wednesday night. I had just finished sharing with my quad girls all that had been going on when Jason called me and asked me to meet him on the back porch. After working at Apex with his quad guys, he picked up some beautiful roses and brought them to me! We had a good time of hugging and I of course cried. Side note--the Lord has been confirming in my heart that it's OK to share what I struggle with...in moderation of course. Sometimes it's tough being a pastor's wife because there's this expectation (probably self-induced), that our marriages should be without blemish. So I tend to clam up when I need to ask for prayer the most. I do thank God for the girls in my quad and also for Amy who's been very encouraging. Back to the main thought--it was just so nice to receive beautiful flowers the minute after I shared what was on my heart. I feel like God showed me that it's ok to share struggles and ask for prayer among believing women...and then He rewarded me with flowers from Jason and an awesome remainder of our week. So now it's Sunday and I've written a novel...I'm very excited to see what the rest of this sabatical has for us.

Looking forward to: going to Bath and Body Works today, watching more West Wing episodes with Jason, dentist appointment tomorrow (seriously, I love going to the dentist), Ikea trip with Amy and Traci, check up for Gideon, house church Thanksgiving meal, hanging out with fellow stay at home moms while Jason works on his paper.

Wing Family Pictures

2008-11-05T09:41:00.001-08:00

Here are some of our Wing family pictures that Amy McSwegin took for us a few days ago. Thanks, Amy!

And he shall be named...

2008-11-03T10:48:00.001-08:00

Gideon Justus Wing

After many weeks of knowing we're having a son but not knowing what name to call him, we finally decided. There's much relief now that we've made the decision and we're both very excited to meet our Gideon in under 16 weeks!

And She's Off...

2008-10-30T19:16:00.001-07:00

Reagan has officially become a big girl--she's walking! Sept. 19 she took her first steps, three actually. After a month of hanging on to our hands, the walls, any and all objects, and taking a few on her own (no more than three or four), she exceeded the expectations. She was at Mom and Dad's tonight while Jason and I were with our HC's Halloween "outreach" if you will, and she decided to walk all over the place. Once we arrived to pick her up we checked it out ourselves and she really, really did great! She just kept going from person to person, laughing the entire time. It was an awesome night for such a great memory. Now she's up in her crib, sleeping soundly due to all her walking, and Jason and I will finish our night together watching tv and reading Consumer Reports.

**October 30th will always be a special day because it was three years ago today that Jason baptized me, and now our daughter is walking...October is a sweet month**

Perfect Sunday

2008-10-26T15:39:00.000-07:00

Today was great...a beautiful sunny day with Jason and Reagan. We went to the Walnut Hills park up the street and over one more and got lots of pics. I have to say I have loved this day.

Birthday, Birthday Party, and Sweetest Day

2008-10-18T19:13:00.001-07:00

Our baby girl turned one year old yesterday! Her party was today and we have lots of pics to show for it. I will admit I'm overjoyed that Reagan is one...but I'm also sad because I'm realizing how fast life is actually flying by. Especially since she's reached all sorts of milestones lately. Here are some pics to enjoy...she did a great job with her cupcake and received so many books, toys, and sippy cups to entertain. We are so grateful for all our friends and family that helped make today so fun.

And not only was today Reagan's party, but it was also Sweetest Day. Last year we were in the hospital, recovering from Reagan's birth. Jason brought me beautiful lilies, my favorite flower, and he brought Reagan a single lily...how appropriate! Anyways, as we were running around the house getting things in place for the big shin dig today, Jason marches in the living room with presents for me! What is this?!? He had a big Charlotte Russe bag and an Old Navy bag. He knows I was in need of winter boots with no high heels, appropriate for pregnancy and holding a one year old among snow and ice. So, he picked up a pair of black and brown boots for me from Charlotte Russe. Also, I needed a maternity coat for this winter since I'll have a huge belly by the time the dead of winter is upon us. So out comes a maternity overcoat from Old Navy! I also was graced with a pair of maternity khakis that were on clearance. Unfortunately they don't fit--so they will go back. But anyways, what a surprise this was! Jason's always good at surprising me, one of his finest qualities of our dating era I admit. And he found money in our account to somehow hide from me and surprise me on Sweetest Day. More to come on Reagan's gifts in the next few days...

Here he is!

2008-10-16T13:07:00.001-07:00

Here's our baby boy!

And It's A...

2008-10-15T20:25:00.000-07:00

BOY!

Yesterday Jason and I saw that we are not only the parents of a beautiful baby girl, but also...a strapping young boy! I'm officially 20 weeks pregnant today and are very excited to have a daughter and a son. :) Our due date is still March 5, but since we're having a C-section we'll have our baby boy at the end of February. We've reached the halfway point and are overjoyed to have a wingman even out our family. Now, to only land on a name...

Where to Begin...

2008-10-13T05:20:00.000-07:00

Removing cereal boxes cause it's fun

Mommy's little helper

No words for this cuteness

Sorry for the delay in posting. Reagan has been keeping my very busy these days! She's taken her first steps, learned how to pull herself up on anything (including her crib rails when she doesn't want to get to sleep--like last night), does her funky monkey crawl, and is interested in eating, a lot! Perhaps a growth spurt? Her temperment is usually very pleasant, especially around people other than her parents. But I feel lately she's been extra cranky and has a small fit when she doesn't get her way. I'm trying to figure out when she's just being a one year old who doesn't understand most of life, or if she is displaying behavior that needs actual correction. So, here we go--parenting just got a bit tougher. However, my pregnancy hormones are in FULL, dramatic, cry-at-the-drop-of-an-anything, swing. So maybe things are just fine and I'm over-reacting.

Our little one has surely been a joy to us--can't believe she's turning one on Friday! Time truly does fly when you have children. By the way, we find out tomorrow at 1:00 if we're having a son or daughter. I've been feeling this baby move much more these past two days...always an encouraging milestone. Before I get going, here's what we're most looking forward to:

tomorrow's ultrasound!

big house church gathering on Wednesday

date night on Thurs.

planning for Reagan's birthday party

Reagan's birthday on Friday!

Her party on Saturday!

Thank You!

2008-10-03T14:42:00.000-07:00

Phew! Thanks to all of you who helped me get on track to affordable meal planning! I'm so grateful for all the advice offered and all the websites thrown out there for me to visit. I have a lot to think about! Better to have a lot to look at and sift through than not enough...

Looking forward to getting together with Kate next week to discuss more about meal planning in greater detail. Amber and I were just talking last week about how difficult it is to plan healthy meals on tight budgets, God has answered yet another prayer of mine...seeking to be a virtuous woman who is thrifty.

Lots going on this weekend: family night at home (finally!), wedding tomorrow at 4, nursery duty at 5:30 at Apex, birthday party at 7:30, Jason working on Sunday, maybe getting together with the Ham fam at some point, it's been over a week!

Meal Planning Advice

2008-09-25T20:43:00.000-07:00

Hey faithful readers...I'm asking for your advice...

In January, Jason and I decided to adopt the "envelope budget system." It brings so much freedom because we know how much we can spend each month and when the envelope gets low--that's it. No more till the first of the month, no matter what. So anyways, the biggest point of tension/conflict/frustration/confusion for us is how I'm so bad at keeping money in our grocery envelope. Grocery prices are going up so much--even storebrand foods/products (which I buy when possible). All that to say...could you point me in the direction of a website or blog or something that helps with meal planning? On a small budget? Like, really small?

Any tips or words of wisdom would be greatly appreciated! Thanks, girls!

2 weeks and 5 days...

2008-09-25T05:59:00.000-07:00

...till we find out if we're having a boy or girl! I start my 18th week tomorrow and am so excited about finding out this baby's gender.

Also looking forward to: heading to MI for Jason's dad's retirement party, Jason's day off on Monday, Recipe Club Tuesday night, big HC meeting on Wed., Fall weather approaching!

Shaken by Theology

2008-09-20T19:12:00.000-07:00

Well, this humble, soft spoken, very wise man came to Apex to share his thoughts on many things Theology and it's got me asking lots of questions. The staff, elders, and leaders of Apex and their spouses were encouraged to sit in on several sessions from Thursday-Saturday of this week. I was able to be there for a few sessions...not really knowing what to expect, but quickly enjoyed what I was hearing and learning, making me eager for more teaching. Anyways...I have lots to think through and read up on. I know I have a family full of Theology/solid teaching background, and a hubby in seminary who's wise even without having his Masters, but I want to do this for myself this time. Tonight, I'm reading up on the End Times and I have a feeling I'm in for quite a shake up. But I think it's gonna be good...

Thanks, Ike

2008-09-14T15:31:00.000-07:00

Well, the winds from Hurricane Ike have reached Ohio. In fact, they reached Dayton, Belmont, Epworth Ave., and our tree...which tumbled onto Kendall's fence and garage. Ahh, Ike.

So Funny!

2008-09-14T14:24:00.001-07:00

For a great laugh, please visit my brother's blog and read "Open Mic". He teaches Literature at a charter school in Boston and had a hilarious encounter with a very confused student...Enjoy!

www.callhimishmael.blogspot.com

Reagan's Big Deals

2008-09-13T05:27:00.000-07:00

This week has been a big week for us! Little Reagan has shocked me with developmental skills, organizational skills, and her lack of whining skill...

Kristi Rogers came over on Wednesday and was playing on the floor with Reagan. Kristi's Starbucks mug was very enticing to Reagan and as soon as Reagan got in her funky crawling position I said, "Yeah--she gets all ready to crawl and then she leans back down on her little butt." Well I spoke too soon because Reagan not only stayed in the funky crawling formation, but she started towards the mug! She did this several times and we were so excited! I admit I shed a few tears of joy and happiness for her. Jason and I were starting to get worried about her lower back, hip, and leg development since it was taking her so long to figure out crawling and even dragged her left leg when she walked. But the walking is perfect now (while gripping our fingers for security), and while her crawling is awkward, the doc. said it's nothing to be concerned about! Phew! Thanks, Kristi, for being around for such a momentous occasion!

Cheers!

Next skill: Reagan organizing her fruity cheerios. I put a pile of fruity cheerios on her tray the other morning like I always do. She loves to look at them then stuff them in her mouth but that morning she had other things on her cheerio agenda. I left the kitchen, probably to blow my nose for the thousandth time that morning, and returned to a tray organized by color. She put all the red ones together, grouped the purples together, and was eating the green ones. Maybe this is normal for an almost 11 month old...but it did surprise me!

Final skill worth noting: Yesterday marked the fourth day Reagan had a stuffy, runny nose. Her temp wasn't very high but she had one. I thought it might be a good idea to get her looked at by our pediatrition before the weekend came just in case an infection developed over the weekend. After some nasty sneezes which revealed a bright green infection, I was glad the appointment was already scheduled. Jason and I took her to the doc. and we learned little Reagan has a double ear infection. Which brings me to her skill worth mentioning, she acted totally normal these past four days, just had a runny nose! No whining, no crying (except for bed and nap times), walking like crazy, crawling for the first time...So--deal is sealed, when Reagan has a slight symptom of a cold or flu--to the doc. she goes. I was the opposite. I'd make up symptoms and always dramatized my slight ailment just to get attention and get out of school. Thank goodness Reagan has Jason's, "I'll suck it up and go on with my life, in fact--can I go organize some cheerios, please?" gene.

9/11 Remembered

2008-09-11T10:56:00.000-07:00

Today is the seven year anniversary of the terrorist attacks on the World Trade Center, The Pentagon, and the failed attempt to destroy the Capital. We remember those who died in NY, Washington D.C., and Shanksville, PA. As Jason and I watched all the tributes to those who died this morning on tv we were gripped with many emotions, mostly anger towards the terrorists who planned and performed those attacks. We watched MSNBC, who I usually can't stand with their left-wing reporting, and I was so thankful to see them re-running actual footage of 9/11 seven years ago. There weren't any commercials during the program, just Katie Couric hosting her show with many news contributers speculating as to who did this and what else would be to come. So, thanks MSNBC for taking off your liberal hats this morning and playing the footage of 9/11 uninterupted.

Lots of emotions are in all of us today. I'm especially aware of those who have family members serving in the Military, state-side or overseas, those who lost family during the attacks, veterans, and politicians. Election Day is quickly approaching and today is a wonderful reminder of how strong America has remained with George Bush as our President. So many measures were taken to prevent another attack on our country--and I'm grateful to him. (Now here I go, unashamedly, thanking conservatives and Republicans). Thank you for understanding we want our borders closed to terrorists who currently have easy access as illegal immigrants. We value our safety rather than hurting potential terrorists' feelings by keeping them out of America. And we encourage you to keep up your fight against liberals who embrace the idea of a failed mission in Iraq (John Murtha, Barack Obama, Robert Byrd, Nancy Pelosi). I feel that so many have forgotten what really happened, who attacked us, why we were attacked, and how we can fight against this in the future. I'm terrified of what may happen to our country if a Democrat is elected into the White House this November--Obama has repeatedly defended his postitions on his friendship with terrorist William Ayers, and has agreed to meeting with leaders of countries like N. Korea and Iran with no pre-conditions or caveats. One thing is for sure: if Obama is elected, I'm glad our military is wise enough to advise him otherwise, and handle his short-comings as he blindly hands our heads over to terrorists on a silver platter.

Many say today is not a day to politicize 9/11 and the tragedy it became. I feel that it's a time to reflect and hope for a future with no such catastrophe to be repeated. It comes down to who will best lead our nation among those who seek to destroy her--and I thank my fellow Republican congressmen and women, local state representatives, my family who has served in our Air Force and Army, and those who want to see a war hero become our next President.

Thanks for reading this--I admit I'm an emotional, pregnant, conservative, biased citizen who is at times very dramatic. Sorry for the drama, but not really. Above are pictures of troops serving in the Middle East, and a picture of the Pentagon Memorial, honoring the 184 who died seven years ago today.

Italian Festival

2008-09-07T17:24:00.000-07:00

My first Sfingi!

I like chocolate chips, Mama!

Tonight was quite the night! Jason, Reagan, and I met my mom and Lisa J. at the Italian Festival. I have been looking forward to this festival since New Years day--it's one of the highlights of my year. Not kidding. The festival has three great things: Italians, food, and music. When we arrived we noticed how uncrowded it was--it's usually packed and you have to wait in line at least 20 minutes for one item of food. We decided to go the last day of the festival from here on out since parking and lines weren't an issue. Italian music was playing, the smell of garlic was in the air, and everyone was just happy (probably from all the beer they were drinking). Since this only happens once a year let me tell you about all the food we inhaled. I had a muffaletta sandwich, half of a calzone, half of a sfingi (imagine a thick funnel cake, but better), and a canoli. Yum! Reagan decided to be daring and tried a chocolate chip tonight. Well then she had all the chocolate chips off my canoli because she liked them so much. And Jason kept it well within reason, only eating half of Lisa's Italian sausage, and a meatball sandwich. My only disappointment was that there was no coffee. Coffee is very Italian, at least espresso is--but nada. I'm looking forward to next year--we'll be toting around two little ones in a double stroller, expanding our Italian family...even though our last name is very, very Asian.

Recap

2008-09-06T06:28:00.001-07:00

Here are some pics to recap the past few weeks. They've been full of fun! We also celebrated Maya's second birthday, had Jason's parents come to visit for Maya's party, had an awesome time at house church, and are loving that my second trimester is here. Gone with the nasties, here with the fun!

Playtime with Dada

Reagan and Uncle Chris

Look at this smile!
Duckies!
Walking with Pops
Eating wears me out!

Historical moment captured!
Jeff, Mike, and Joey watching Aaron and Kimmy as man and wife

Maggie rocking her niece to sleep

Hi!

I promise

2008-09-05T20:53:00.001-07:00

Hey all! It's been a while since I've updated. It's pretty late but since I have a new background dedicated to Fall and it's sunflowers, I thought I should say a quick hello. Pics are coming, family updates are coming, and sleep is coming. I'll post tomorrow.

Nothing Short of a Miracle

2008-08-26T07:22:00.000-07:00

This is amazing! I'll be holding back tears as I type...

This morning as I was changing and dressing little Reagan for the day, Jason came in her bedroom and asked me, "Babe, have you seen this?" I turned around and saw the envelope he was holding out to me. "What, a bill?" "Nope--it's a money order." I said, "What's a money order?" "Babe, someone gave us $540 and they have a note that says, 'for your zofran.'" "WHAT?!?!"

The envelope had no return address on it and the money order had no name of the sender. I made sure Reagan was safe and started tearing up...so thankful that God has once again provided money for us when we least expect it and certainly don't deserve it! The three of us prayed together, thanking God for His unending mercy and love for us. I have my suspicions of who the generous giver(s) are, and they have been quite sneaky. So if you're reading this blog, please know that you have come along side us when we need it the most. Having nausea all the time can be draining on a marriage and home life because nothing gets done around the house and tensions can rise because I'm always on the verge of sickness. So thank you for offering not only physical relief to me, but marital relief as well. Not to mention, I'll be a much better parent to Reagan, having more energy, being able to play more, etc. because of your generosity. Zofran is very expensive and worth every cent because it truly is a miracle drug. We we weren't planning on me taking it anymore--and we were ok with that! Yet you decided to open your heart and your checkbook to make me feel better--something I'm so not deserving of! Thank you so much, whoever you are. There's no way you can know how much you've blessed us.

Michelle My Belle

2008-08-25T19:43:00.000-07:00

As you all know, I graduated with my degree in Political Science. I love the ins and outs of politics, government, and all the good and bad it brings. The time for the Democratic National Convention has come upon us, again, and Michelle "my belle" Obama (as Rush Limbaugh lovingly calls her) is speaking about her beloved husband. Allow me to step out of my mommy shell and be over-opinionated:

My main issue with democrats, while I have too many to count, is that they are pro-choice. Life is not trivial enough for a woman to decipher--like democrats claim. Life is ordained by God no matter how faithful or how despicable the woman carrying the baby may be. So the one thing I keep repeating to myself is: how can Michelle, My Belle be so proud of herself as a mother when she is pro-let the mom decide if she should murder her baby? I'll never understand this, just as democrats will never understand the issue of the sanctity of life--a topic which sides are polar opposite and will remain so, unfortunately. Back to my main question--Michelle, My Belle, can you really be proud of yourself when you're ok with deciding who should live and who shouldn't? How can you sleep at night knowing your husband is ok with letting babies die who have been the victims of a) abortion and b) have survived it?

I most certainly am not proud of politicians who sign legislation allowing infants to die because they survived an abortion, infact they repulse me. And it scares me to death that one such legislator is headed for the White House. Those walls are too strong and pure for anyone with such disgusting views. For belonging to a party who loves health care for all humans, how about rethinking giving health care to the most innocent of all, infants who didn't choose to be murdered, but survived?

Michelle, my Belle, while Republicans and Democrats have their many wrongs, your party and husband are taking our country to the lowest of the lows.

And Donald Miller, I'm all about prayer and interceeding for fellow Christ followers and those who have yet to know Him. But you have a lot of explaining to do for supporting a party who supports abortion and supports a presidential candidate who allows botched abortion survivors to die with no care. You have disappointed me.

It's been a long time comin'...

2008-08-24T18:48:00.000-07:00

Well this morning we woke to quite an adventure. I noticed an unusual sound of water rippling in our basement. Odd--since it hadn't rained in a while, therefore meriting no expected basement leaks. So I braved it...went to the basement and stepped with caution. I peered around the corner to our storage and laundry area and saw water leaking from under our water heater. We had a slow and steady leak for a many months, but we never took it seriously. Well now we did. The bottom of our water heater had completely rusted away and water was going straight through. Thank goodness our basement is slanted and the water streamed right into our drain--phew! So we ended up asking our friends Devin and Bethany and their 9 week old stud of a baby, Jonas, to come over and give us their opinion since they just had the same thing happen to them. And Devin said we were due for a new one. Jason came home from Apex, was the most amazing help, encourager, supporter, and husband to me because he took Reagan with him to Lowes to buy a replacement. I have really been battling nausea today and needed to lie down for a long time. So Devin helped Jason and Reagan pick out a water heater and they all came back to dismantle the old and attach the new...which took many many hours. But in the end, we're doing well with a nice new water heater which we can take advantage of tomorrow. Most of all, I'm thankful we could hang out with Devin, Bethany, and Jonas--quite spontaneously. Most fascinating part of this whole ordeal: within three minutes of our old water heater being in the back yard by our trash can, someone took it for gold. What a lovely part of living in Belmont, one man's junk is another man's surprsing treasure...

Jason and I are watching Lord of the Rings: The Return of the King. I'm amazed at the make up jobs the artists did on the orks. So ugly yet so remarkable! Well I'm off to eat something light before I head to bed. P.S., the closing ceremony of the Olympics were breathtaking!

Da da da da....Here Comes the Food Poisoning

2008-08-23T06:05:00.000-07:00

Just to give an update on yesterday's craziness...after having a terrible bout of vomiting and other unsightly issues, I'm on the fast track to recovery. After date night this past Thursday night, I noticed I was unusually queasy. I had lots of races against my puke to the toilet all through the night and by 4:45am was scared that I couldn't even keep water or my own saliva in my stomach. I called the OB doctor on call to let her know I was getting dehydrated and was worried about the baby not getting any nutrition from me. She said it was ok and to wait through Friday to see how it was. That was a dumb and non-sufficient answer for me. So after more of the vomiting and such by 9am yesterday, I called my family doctor and was encouraged to go to the ER. If I wasn't pregnant it wouldn't have been a big deal, but since it had been a long time since I'd kept anything in my stomach, the baby wasn't getting enough of anything healthy. Mom came over to watch Reagan for the day (and what a Godsend she is) and Jason and I went to the ER. After lots of waiting we were seen and I was pumped up with 2 litres of IV fluid and phenergan (which turned me into a zombie). But it was nice to get lots of rest, I'll admit. The baby is doing great with a strong heartbeat of 160! What a relief! This baby is a trooper. After we were released from the hospital, and after a few more bouts of nausea, I headed to my parents' house with Reagan while Jason headed off to Columbus for his seminary class. Today will be spent relaxing, trying to hydrate myself, and regaining strength. OH, and here's the explanation of the title of this blog: at least 12 people have food poisoning from a wedding this past Sunday. I didn't know this but sometimes food poisoning can stay in your system for up to two weeks before it kicks in. So, thanks for the lovely wedding and the gift that was given to the guests in return. Actually, the bride even got sick (or so I heard), which will make quite a memory. Thanks to all who prayed for me and offered to help out--your prayers have been heard because the Lord has taken away most of my illness!

Astigmawhat?

2008-08-21T19:05:00.001-07:00

Well Monday afternoon I decided to go get my eyes examined. For the past several months I've noticed my eyesight digressing when I read something up close...computer work and books mainly being the victim of the blurriness. So off to Lenscrafters to fill out a ton of paperwork I went. Ends up...I have astigmatism in my left eye and needed correction in both eyes, each lens being different strengths. I kinda just thought I was overreacting or just having a hard time focusing...but much to my relief, I wasn't freaking myself out because I really had a problem. So now I have fun red-framed glasses for working on the computer and reading. Tada. Problem easily solved. I don't have a picture yet, so maybe I'll post one when I don't feel so dorky. Tired am I, so to bed I go.

Finally, South Carolina

2008-08-16T11:46:00.001-07:00

July 2-12 were wonderful because we were out of Dayton, the muggy, boring city that it is. We were in South Carolina, surrounded by Southern drawls and precious memories. After our few days spent with the Ham Fam, we went to Surfside Beach, SC (only 12 miles S. of Myrtle Beach). It's not so "touristy", and it's friendly to calm, peace-seeking vacationers. Mom and Dad rented a condo at Maritime Place, the same Condo building they rented from three years ago where Jason and I got engaged. It was so great to be back where we said, "I love you" for the first time and had our very first kiss! And who knew we'd have a 9 month old and another baby on the way...not us! Totally not in our plans to have two children already, but God is way better at planning than we are, so we surrender! We shared the week with our dear friends, the Barkers. Sun-worshipping, wave-riding, reading, swimming, napping, eating out, and Dutch Blitz turned our week together into a wonderful time of memories. Not to mention, Mike and Maggie joined us unexpectedly and stayed a few days before trekking back to Boston. And of course, having a 9 month old with us had it's joys and setbacks. But most of all, it was great to be with everyone who we hold so dear to us.

"Daddy, look over there!"

Maggie and Reagan

"I'm the #1 swimmer!"

Same place we got engaged

Splish splash family

Jason and Reagan

Toes in the sand

Mike, Maggie, Becca, me, Jason, and Reagan

Mom, me, Maggie, and Becca

Same place we had pictures taken after our engagement three summers ago...

Mike and Dad

Me and Reagan

Another Detour

2008-08-14T20:27:00.000-07:00

I know I'm supposed to be updating about SC, over a month ago--but I have been distracted by two pictures. One was from a year ago when I was pregnant with Reagan, and the other was taken by Amber last week while we were on family vacation in Michigan...fun and worthy of posting:

More to come soon, really.

Real Quick

2008-08-01T19:12:00.000-07:00

I know this post is supposed to be all about the beach vacation we took a month ago...but I have to interject with this great picture of Gibson, Maya, and Reagan Wing. Amy McSwegin, one of the greatest photograpers I've ever encountered, is also a good friend and she sent me this picture today. Had to post...

...so the next few posts will be about the beach, then the Michigan vacation we're leaving for tomorrow morning. So much laundry and packing to do. OK--back to work.

HamFam Reunion

2008-07-19T12:12:00.000-07:00

A few days after we found out we were prego, we packed up and headed to Blythewood, South Carolina! Uncle Henry (my Dad's brother) and Aunt Bonita live in a beautiful home in the woods and it was the perfect place for all the cousins to rendevoux. Anyways, Jason, Reagan, and I caravanned with my parents and sister to SC and met up with Mike and Maggie an hour away from Uncle Henry and Aunt Bonita's house at Cracker Barrel--our family favorite. Here are some pics of a wonderful Hamilton Family (HamFam) Reunion.

More pics and posts from the beach to come...

We Three Wings...Are Now Four!

2008-07-15T18:36:00.001-07:00

Yes! As you can imagine by the title and the picture of the three pregnancy tests above, we are expecting Wing baby number two! We found out about 2 1/2 weeks ago...and the story goes like this: It was a nice, beautiful, sunny, Sunday afternoon and I had this suspicion that something was different. I had a feeling for a few days that something was at work--but waited until that Sunday to actually ask Jason to pick up a pregnancy test on his way home from the Apex building. So he agreed and went to Dollar General to pick up a test. The clerks suggested he get two since they were $1 each...just in case one was defunct. So I drank up and took the two $1 tests. The tests came back negative after 30 seconds. So I left the bathroom sad yet totally ok with the negative tests. After letting Jason know it was a no go I made some coffee and did some kitchen cleaning. I went back to the bathroom to throw the tests away and saw the shock of a lifetime...the positive lines had become clear. Panic immediately set in. I yelled from the bathroom to Jason in the kitchen, "Oh my word, I am NOT even kidding!" "What", Jason replied, with doubt and excitement in his voice. "The lines are here, both tests, they're there. Oh my gosh--I'm pregnant. I'm so pregnant!" So after we pondered two positive tests for 45 minutes, we decided me taking a more reliable, expensive test would be a good idea. So Jason headed to CVS to pick up a $8 test. He was so distracted by the idea of another baby on the way that he drove to the gas station instead, got out, realized he was NOT at CVS, then went to get the test. Needless to say, the third test was positive right away and we prepared ourselves for another Winglet! I'll be honest in that I was very scared and nervous, and somewhat selfish the first day or two. Thinking about raising two little ones almost 18 months apart really intimidated me. But the Lord really encouraged me because I know He wasn't surprised by this and He reminds me always that I have such supportive friends and family nearby. So...Jason's ecstatic, I'm excited now, and Reagan is still clueless but really cute. We are officially 7 weeks pregnant, and we can expect this baby to arrive March 7, 2009.

A few days later, we went to South Carolina for 10 days and I'll have more to post on that in a few. I thought I'd post in order of events and the pregnancy news preceeded SC. So yes, here we come--all four of us. Here's a picture of us with baby #2 at Garden City Beach, SC.

A moment to brag

2008-07-01T21:03:00.000-07:00

I just need a brief moment to brag on Reagan. It's been crazy around our house these past few days and with all the excitement of vacation, packing, unexpected joys, and whatnots--Reagan has been in a constant state of bliss. It's been delightful! She has learned how to wave repeatedly, and clap when we ask her to, put her arms up when we say, "up!", and gets so excited when we say, "let's go see the duckies!" It really has been so great. I must say parenting has become much easier the older Reagan gets. OK--thanks for that moment of bragging.

Tomorrow morning at oh, 7:15am we are leaving for South Carolina. We are going to spend a few days at Aunt Bonita and Uncle Henry's house for a humungo Hamilton Family Reunion (dearly nicknamed "Hamfam"). All the cousins and their little ones will be there, with their spouses and baby on board, and Mike and Maggie will join us all the way from Boston! Looking forward to the Ham Fam talent show in which a Flight of the Conchords song will surely be performed. You tube them if you can--Flight of the Conchords--Jenny. You won't regret it and you'll laugh hysterically! I digress. Then my parents, Becca, Jason, Reagan, and I will head to S. Myrtle Beach and meet up with the Barkers. I'll post pics and share how things are going. This is a much needed vacation for everyone. I'm so thankful God has provided us with a wonderful family we can enjoy. More to come...

Foreshadowing...

2008-06-28T18:36:00.000-07:00

Today Jason, Reagan, and I went to Elise Witthoeft's first birthday party. We loved being with her and all the friends and family that attended the party. It was lovely to be with so many friends with children, those who are expecting, and those waiting to see if they're expecting. It's awesome to see parents who love the Lord raising their children in a manner that honors the Lord. I'm truly amazed at how the Lord has brought us so many great friends who celebrate children. Back to the main point, Jason and I kept saying to each other, "Won't it be fun to have Reagan's first birthday party? How can we make that day special for Reagan, will she even care? What if she doesn't even have teeth to eat her cake with yet?" It was a fun day to dream about our baby girl being one in only four months. Here are some pictures of Elise devouring her cake and Jason and Reagan being the cutest daddy daughter duo I've ever seen.

Praise! Praise!

2008-06-25T11:47:00.000-07:00

We all know the housing market isn't doing so well. And the housing market in the Washington D.C. area has been hit especially hard this past year. Despite the woes of many a seller God has answered a very big request! My parents put their Fairfax, VA home on the market three days ago and have already had two offers. The first couple to offer accepted my parents' counter-offer and things are a go! Who would have ever thought this would happen so soon! Now they need to get it inspected and then negotiations will continue from there. Hooray for buyers!

Now, if we could only get Phil and Amber's house to sell so they can move to the Big Monte...

Thanks, Lord!

Hello, Blogspot

2008-06-22T21:06:00.000-07:00

Well Xanga was getting pretty boring so I decided to spice life up and go crazy with blogspot. With Summer finally here and vacations quickly approaching, I thought it would be nice to have a new blog to post my thoughts, pictures, and what nots.

Reagan and I have gone to the park a lot lately to look at the duckies. Here are some pictures of a recent trip. Thanks for visiting! There will be much more to come!