Life. I don't know how all my young-mom-friends out there do it. They serve their husbands, kids, make their homes into live-in design show rooms, home school, host house church, have time for reading and hobbies on the side, oh yeah, and are growing by leaps and bounds in their walks with the Lord, too. They are superwomen. (Or are they? Is this what a normal woman and mother is supposed to look like? If so, yowzas...I need an intervention!)
So, in an attempt to actually be like these fellow mamas and women, I've been striving to do all of the above the last few months. And simply, I can't do it. And now that I'm realizing how much I've tried to do it successfully, I'm all the more empty.
Comparison is a thorn in my side. I'm learning, once again, how useless and detrimental this tactic of the enemy is. I feel like I should have this figured out by now. That I should be confident and have enough self-awareness to combat the little thoughts that come floating by. Rather than let them pass by, I ponder, give them more attention than they deserve. Then those floating thoughts land, take root, then grow to affect my outlook on life, family, and the Church. This is so elementary! Why is this still an issue?!
For now, I'll stop asking why it's an issue and accept that it is an issue. And now that it's admitted, I can no longer fool myself and think I can fix it on my own. Now I have the joy of repenting. And I'm not being sarcastic--it is a joy for me to repent! It could be daily for the next few days and weeks. OK, probably multiple times a day, but it's still repenting. And I'm learning that all this comparison stuff isn't really as much about wanting to refine myself or do better for my family as it is about wanting to puff myself up. So, enter pride. I'm learning that pride is at the root of my heart and I want to look like I have it all together so I can be esteemed as a good wife who practices Proverbs 31. Good grief if that isn't sin then what is?! (Didn't think I'd be pouring my heart out on my blog today--I have laundry to do, tons of it, but I think this public confession is laundering my heart. Which I'll take). So, there's a bit of an update into my life and how Christ and the Spirit are searching my heart, exposing the disgusting-ness of it, and how I need Him more now than I can ever remember. I love that I have a Savior who isn't surprised by this. He's not shaking his head or "tisk-tisk" ing me. He loves me, He made me, He knew this would be a struggle, and He decided to redeem me anyways. And He's refining and will use this for His glory, Lord willing.
On a not so serious note, here are some goals and recent updates:
- Jason will be sharing preaching responsibilities at the Apex Xenia campus and the Kettering campus starting in September. This is a huge step for our family. We're excited for what's to come!
- I've become a Mary Kay beauty consultant. I've loved it so far and I'm hoping this venture will bring in extra income for our family, allow me to expand my social circles and reach women who don't know Christ so through our facials, I can share Him with them.
- Reagan and Gideon are the cutest kids. They are handfuls most of the time but my heart is also full because of them. So, I guess they're handfuls and heartfuls.
- Michael, Maggie, and Jonah-boy are moving back to Dayton in July. No words could express how much our little family is anticipating their home-coming.
- Becca boo is home for the Summer and it's been awesome to re-connect and hang out with her. She's become our weekly babysitter and it's great to see the kids bond with her even more.
- Ham Fam Reunion 2011 is just around the corner. It.will.be.fantastic.
- Goals: Wake up early again to be in the Word. Exercise. Get my house in order. Get pregnant. Host more Mary Kay parties and facials. Get a home school curriculum in place for Fall for Miss Reagy Roo. Learn new ways to encourage my hubby. Start taking Gideon out for mommy/son dates.
Now that I've changed my blog background and successfully rearranged some stuff and added a new header and actually blogged, I'm off to accomplish some of the above goals. Thanks for reading, you'll hear more from me soon. For real this time. I'm going to get better at this.
